Gail Holwell, Veera Mylapore, Elysia Blaire, Karissa Wieskamp, Tobias Ruderer, Anthony Nguyen, JP Herman
Duration: 01:03:54
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Hello and welcome to you all. We are pleased and excited to have you join us here today and will strive to make this experience as enjoyable as possible for all of you and strive to match the sense of enjoyment we have in communicating with you.
We are excited to meet and get to know more of ourselves through you. And excited for you to meet and get to know more of yourselves through us.
Our desire is to aid you in the realization of your desires and so know that any questions that you may have or form of dialogue you would like to engage with today is of the highest benefit to all. And so you may proceed in the intention that was set to have your queries or questions or expressions reflected by us at this time.
Q: If someone is seeking peace, what would you share on that topic?
V: What we would share would depend upon where the person was intending on seeking such peace as there truly is nothing but peace and it is the seeking of something other than peace that has caused this confusion.
If an external experience reflects something other than peace; perhaps conflict or war or violence or a state of being that is kin to agitation... then this is already a manifest example of an interior process… and this process is not necessarily individual but collective and so there is a reflection of an internal belief that peace is not the standard or what-is.
Can you imagine a world in which there was the blanket assumption that peace IS? And how that would be reflected in that world? Conflict would just be a thing that did not happen.
Each being that seeks peace within and seeks to balance their own internal conflict and judgement will automatically transmit that into their surroundings. And one can stand in the middle of conflict or a battle or a violent situation and reflect only peace back to that. And in fact you have had in your history beings who have done this. They are living examples of the truth of what peace is.
However the question is or was: What would I suggest to an entity that seeks peace, and I would suggest that the entity stop seeking and start becoming.
Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you.
Q: Thank you for interacting with us. In the beginning you said you want to help us to get to know our desires. So I would be interested in: Where are those desires while we are not yet aware of them? Is there anything set or if it’s yet to discover, where is it?
V: Well, it, as all things, is nowhere and at this moment in time you are having a desire to know where your desires are or what your desires may be.
It seems to us that the question is more a question upon fate and/or destiny rather than desires. We would point you back to the concept that everything is of your own creation.
And so, the desires, of which we are speaking, that are yours, are, before manifest also yours - to manifest. And so we do not wish that you discover desires, we wish that you create them and then see them manifest. We would wish to help in this.
We know, however, that all beings. fundamentally have the same desire: Which is the expansion of consciousness and this goes beyond any personal desires possible.
While desires are personal and individual and also fluctuating, at the same time, simultaneously, they are written in stone, so to speak. In that; the moment that any possibility comes into your present awareness it has and will and always has been the only option that there was but only because there is no time in which to have had a past or future and so the now moment is the only moment that is. And so the now moment is also the only moment that was in the past or will dictate the future.
Destiny and free-will coexist in this way because there is no future and there was no past. And this is something you do have direct experience of for you have never been in the past or the future. You have only ever been now. It is a concept that you have not been. And it is only in the mind that you travel into the future or into the past.
It would be very easy to let go of the future and for the so-called future still to happen. You could never think of the future again and it would still occur in the now. And you could never think of the past again and the past would still be what it is.
When seeking to understand one’s desires our suggestion would be to get very quiet… and to allow them to wash over you like a cool river knowing that there is nothing that is needed to bring them to you except for the relaxation into the river of what-is.
Beings have a tendency to judge their own desires… to make themselves separate from God if you choose that word, for there is a tendency to seek separation in your realm because you believe that separation is valuable and safe. You believe that you do not exist in unity. But it is separation that separates you from the beautiful and magnificent and sparkling creatures that you are with your so called faults and desires included. We speak of a relaxing into the YOUness of you. And we believe that there are very few things that can be said to encourage this relaxing and we believe that so many say these things to you over and over and it will take one divine moment for each of you to have this information sink in fully so that you become it.
And in that moment, which is a now moment, not some future moment, but could be any-now, you will know yourself and know that you are fully the creator and fully accepted and fully loved and fully worthy and fully exactly what you were sent here or brought yourself here or came here or came nowhere because there really is no here to be. And perhaps in that same moment you will laugh, because it is truly a fun little jig that you are dancing… Is it not?
Q: Yes, thank you.
V: Thank you.
Q: I’ve lost my desire to serve. How to relight that desire? Or is that even needed?
V: You cannot lose your desire to serve as long as you are incarnate and even beyond that. For the simple action, and action is not the right world, but action, of incarnating in this time-space reality, and reality is not the correct word, but reality, is service.
Whether or not you see how or why this service is, is irrelevant to the services that it is providing. The concept that you can know your service is quite inaccurate and causes many distortions in itself for those of you who have what you would refer to as a deep desire to serve often judge themselves for not serving enough in the correct way, in a way that is appreciated by other-selves or in a way that they themselves can appreciate. And those of you who, as you, claim have lost their desire to serve are actually just playing a game with themselves because if you had lost your desire to serve you would not be aware of your loss of desire to serve. It would not be at all possible to feel in any way about that. You would simply not serve, which as we said, is impossible, but you would simply not serve and this question would not even come to mind.
We would say that your desire to serve is extremely high, as opposed to the way that you are perceiving it. In fact, it is so high that you are concerned that your service is not service enough. If we could soothe this thought with reminding you that there is no form of service that is more worthy than any other form of service. And that you have and do, on a daily basis, serve the people with whom you come into contact with on an extremely high level. And that there is no need to serve in a way that you see someone else serving in because that other-self is already fulfilling the role that you see needs to be fulfilled. And so, anything that you see that is already being done, is already being done. The only thing that is not being done is you being you.
And even in a moment of believing that your service is not adequate or even in a moment of believing that you have lost your will to serve, you are in service. The reasons for this are infinite.
Someone has to be you (laugh) and you have chosen that. So you may as well enjoy it and/or not enjoy it… which would also be in service.
Do not worry about not having a desire because you always do have a desire.
You could also sit under a tree for the rest of your days and this would be in service.
Q: Very helpful, thank you.
V: Thank you.
Q: Does what you just expand upon also include the concept that we have a thing called ‘the calling’ that is very popular in the last years… as in a main desire to serve or a blueprint of the service? Is this also included that its not written, or written in stone. Or asked more simply… is there a thing as ‘calling’.
V: yes, and no.
When one does investigation into their primary desire or their primary calling, one is investigating into themselves, but remember that as one comes to conclusions of this information for oneself it is still oneself who is choosing to arrive at those conclusions.
And so it is possible that as one is investigating, in this way, what is most important to them and what makes them feel most in alignment with self they are simultaneously choosing what is most important to them and what feels most in alignment with self. It is not written externally to oneself.
So the element of destiny or ‘calling’, with which you came into incarnation, is true in that you, in the moment you choose or the moment you discover what your calling is, are choosing that to be your calling.
If, three days later, you decide that actually, there is something that feels better to you, you would then, reassess your calling and make it mean the thing that felt better to you and so you would be choosing a new calling.
And it would not mean that you had come into existence with the first calling and now decided simultaneously to… spontaneously to change the calling but it would mean that you came into existence with the second calling… and if two days later you decided that something felt even better than the second calling you will have come into existence with the third calling but none of this means that when, in the now moment, you discovered your second calling that that was not, what you, in that moment, had come into existence with. And so, all things are destined and all things are chosen.
If you can bridge this paradox within yourself you will understand that all is your choice and all is not. Then your only choice is to choose if it feels better to know that all is your choice or all is not.
All is one.
Q: Thank you.
A: Thank you.
Q: What was the original purpose for females having periods?
V: The human body and female reproductive system requires a healthy atmosphere for the growth of new human tissue and all mammalian tissues require similar atmospheres. This was part of the blueprint for the mammalian body and so the menstrual cycle was required to ensure the optimal environment for the early division of cells within a human body. It was determined that the cycles would be most efficient if within synchronicity to your lunar cycle as this would allow the human reproductive system to function in a relatively stable way being aided by the moon itself and the tides of your planet.
The various diversions from optimal diet and living conditions have altered the cycle for women in most of your civilizations and so this factor is no longer as efficient as it once was and so the menstrual cycle has become a bit of a mystery to your species, however, originally there was a beautiful synchronicity between the human animals of your planet and the lunar cycle which aided both in reproduction and uh, balancing of the important chemicals, hormonal chemicals that are released within the females of your species throughout a 28 or 30 day cycle.
You forget that you are animals. Physically.
Q: And if a female experiences pain leading up to or during this time what is that indicative of and what would you suggest needs to be addressed within?
V: All pain is a gentle or not so gentle telephone call from ones self to self that in each case is making suggestions of changes that would be beneficial to the being. Pain is often a signal that the being is not respecting their own, in this case, cycle and needs potentially leading up to the moment of shedding. The pain of which you speak is indicative of this neglect of true listening in that period - no pun intended. Yes, pun intended.
And so it would do you and others who have this same wakeup call to listen more…
There are foods, and we would say that in this particular topic it is a question not so much of diet throughout the 30 days but a diet that needs to reflect the changes throughout the 30 days to avoid, or respect more than avoid, the requests of the body in this time of release.
We will not elaborate on what form of diet, for each of you will have different dietary needs however we will say that you know exactly what is needed and it is your mind more than your body that is stopping you from providing what is required. If you do not wish to eat we would suggest not eating and if you do wish to eat we would suggest eating but make sure it is coming from your body and not your mind.
It would also be wise to stay away from any food that has not been created by the planet. This is a suggestion that we would have for all - for all of the time.
The planet has provided everything that you need and you have been most creative in providing many, many, many, many, many, other options to satisfy curiosity and vice but the planet knew what you needed and is always providing for you.
There is one last thing we would say on this topic. The females of your species do not, or often do not, know or acknowledge or celebrate how magnificent a machinery they are housed in and any form of negative energy that one dedicates towards ones’ house or machine will anger the machine itself. There is far too much dislike, we would say hatred but it is a strong word and we know it is a strong sentiment that this dislike we are talking about, is, but hatred does not feel like the right word, but there is far too much dislike of the female body by those housed within them. This is cultural and this is collective and this is a wound that is healing… but if you could actually comprehend the mechanics and the unbelievable natural adaptability of that vessel you would never have a problem with it again.
The male of the species, of course, is magnificent, in its way, as well.
Q: If someone is caught up in mental distraction and mental activity, how would you describe a or suggest a centreing focus or activity? For example, people have suggested just meditate for a certain time or stop thinking for a set amount of time or listen to what your deepest resonance is and go do that… do you have a focusing sentiment for us when caught up in mental games?
V: Yes, the first would be to ask yourself if you truly want to get out of this “caught up”ness. That would be step one.
And if you were honest with yourself there would be a good chance that you would find that the answer would be “no” because it is entertaining and satisfying in some way. You see benefit in it.
If the answer was “yes” and you truly felt the suffering that goes with being up in your head and entertaining ideas which feel to you as if they are compulsive, and they are not, but they feel to be to you in this way. We have two suggestions:
The first, and the second, are to remember that you have, in your disposition, tools that are most-holy. The first is your mind itself, and so our first suggestion would be to use the mind to watch the mind.
This does not mean to stop thinking. What it means is to think even harder on some levels. You can do this in meditation or contemplation. The only difference would be that meditation may be you sitting in a specific posture with your eyes closed and contemplation may mean while you are staring off into the sunset and actively thinking. So as soon as you see that your mind has run off in this tangle-web of thoughts and rationale and stories you could use your mind to watch those thoughts and stories and hullabaloo that is coming through it.
And this could be very entertaining as well because it could be like watching some story pass before you and if you watch from a distance sooner or later compassion will dawn on you and you will see these thoughts as the innocent things that they are, which are simply manifestations of thought-matter within an experience. And they will most-likely slow but it wont concern you if they do or if they don't because you won't be identified with them, you will be identified with the thinking mind that is thinking about the thoughts. Which is already in part where you are because you are aware of the fact that you are having thoughts. There is no need to stop them. There is only need to focus upon focusing upon them.
This is similar to what is called ‘awareness watching awareness’ however the moment one says ‘awareness watching awareness’ it seems to have some sort of magical, or inaccessible or non-sustainable quality to it, and yet it is the most simple thing in that it is just taking one step back from what is happening. And If what is happening is thoughts, your first awareness is aware of the thoughts and your second awareness of awareness of the thoughts but we would say, in this case: Just think about the fact that you are thinking and allow.
This is the first technique and it uses your magnificent mind to enjoy and appreciate and have compassion for your magnificent mind.
The second possibility would be a more physical solution. In this case what one could do when having many many many many thoughts that are making them feel uncomfortable one could go into meditation, or gain even not in meditation but in this case perhaps you would have more clarity in meditation, and instead of thinking thoughts, continue to bring oneself back to the body. This is often done through an awareness of the breath - and that is why that practice is so very popular… because it is somatically going to take you out of your head and into your center.
Some do not have success with an awareness of the breath and so perhaps for them it would make more sense for them to have an awareness of the gut or an awareness of the heart or an awareness of the solar plexus but the main condition is to bring awareness into the body and use any sensation of the body to focus awareness away from the mind and into the physical sensations of what is.
When one is focused on what is, and that can be the sensation of an ant crawling up your arm or the grass beneath your feet or whatever other sensation you are presently experiencing, positive or negative, you will eventually let go of all of the thoughts. Again, this is not ‘thinking of nothing’ this is focusing on something.
It is almost impossible, but not impossible, but almost impossible, with your habits of cognizance, to think of nothing. And so the easiest step is to think completely one one thing. This does not stop thoughts it just makes all thoughts more aligned with silence, which is oneness, which is the absence of thought, if that is the goal.
Remember, also, that there is no need to not think. It would depend on what you thought you would be getting from not thinking about the things that you’re thinking about. There would have to be some benefit. There are many beings who think all day and they are quite pleased with thinking all day. But if you are no longer pleased with thinking all day we have suggested two options that may help you.
Q: Thank you.
V: Thank you
Q: What would be the fastest way to heal the wounds between the male and the female… the males and the females on this planet? The wounds that they have done to each other, inflicted onto each other, psychologically mainly.
V: The fastest way would be to forgive and forget.
There are no wounds, really, there is only the maintenance of the idea of wounds. You are all invincible. You have all been unaffected by anything that has transpired beforehand. It is only the belief that something has transpired that allows you to, in this present moment, believe that there is something needing to be healed. We understand the question from the level it is asked and we would still point towards forgiveness, if not forgetting as the quickest solution on the level from which the question has been asked.
And this forgiveness would need to be mutual and would need to be directed towards self for each of the portions of consciousness involved as well. By this we mean that the female polarity would need to forgive self for allowing and creating the male polarity in the form that they have been expressing themselves, as a majority. And the male polarity will have to forgive themselves for whatever they have expressed that is no longer in resonance with the collective desires and would have to forgive the female polarity for expressing themselves in the way they have been expressing themselves in the collective.
Both would need to come back to self and realize that there was never any threat to self from the other polarity and in doing so would have to absorb the unification of the polarities. And in the unification, the wound or ‘so called’ perceived wound, would become a mutual wounding and eventually in this mutual understanding of mutual wounding it would become a mutual healing.
All of this is very, very, very, simple but is not being decided on an individual level as of yet. At the moment there is still a pendulum in motion and it is still swinging towards its highest arc before it will slow in velocity and eventually come to a stop.
It is up to each individual to decide for them, how fast this pendulum will swing. There is no space for blame, guilt, shame, fear, anger… in a slowing trajectory.
There is space for all of these emotions and actions in a trajectory that still wants to experience another version of reality, and so both are welcome, but remember that your experience is yours alone and you can decide what timeline or moment or reality you want to place yourself in.
And so if your choice is to have these wounds healed then you may do so at any time… and if your choice is to experience the healing of the wounds in -quote-quote- real time, then you will continue your movement on this topic and that is also welcome.
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We are amused because there are so many subjects that humanity calls for and says that they want to be in the ideal version of and yet there is so much desire to continue to experience the variety of what is not peace or what is not healing or what is not unification… and so, as all is allowed there is still so much room to play with these topics.
And in this particular group and those who are in contact with us there are so many who are almost ready to stop playing -Ha- and yet still play. And there is no judgement because it is all beautiful. However the fastest way, and that was the question, is to stop playing this game.
Q: Thank you so much.
V: Thank you.
V: If there is we will answer one more question.
Q: I have a question about parenting and honoring the relationship between child and parent as they grow but yet the parent being able to lose their attachment so that the child may move in their incarnation with freedom. How can we learn to do this better.
V: there is very little need for a child for a parent. And this perhaps is quite terrifying for parents who have assumed the collective understanding of parenting but the main need for a child from a parent or any adult is to protect their physical form for as long as is necessary before their own cognitive ability to protect their physical form comes into play which is relatively early and quite a lot earlier than you believe.
Any other need for a child is the same need that all of your beings have which is to be seen, and accepted, and loved - as is.
It is actually the construct that you have of parent-child relationships that impedes this quite often for the moment you see another being as an extension of you you are no longer seeing them as they are. And because of the rapid evolution of a child in the eyes of its primary caregiver there is a large distortion between seeing the child as is in this moment and how they were last week or how they were ten minutes ago or how they were a second ago.
It is extremely difficult for adults interacting with children to see them as they are in the moment and it is the most important thing that one can do for a child because a child is never ever, as adults are never ever, but a child specifically is never, even on a cellular level, the same as it was five minutes earlier.
The main developmental initiative of a child is change.
And the beautiful thing for the adults around the child is to realise and really soak in the experience of the impermanence of anything. Children remind us of our impermanence and it is interesting that most adults do not remember being having been a child and when they see a child do not remember that they too are, as all timelines are simultaneous, that child.
Any parent would do well to truly focus their attention, in a form of waking meditation, in focusing only on the changing factor of their child… which is not their child, just a child.. And in fact, not even a child… a child is a term that you have given to these beings who are newer to this planetary existence than you are.
And yet it is quite absurd!
Could you imagine that if in the first 18 years of a new job someone talked to you the way that you talk to children? As if you were incapable of performing your job? And if they continued to tell you that all of the experiences you were having in this new job were to someday ‘be fully whole’?
You wouldn’t be very pleased with 18 years of that kind of treatment, would you? And yet you all survived that exact treatment. And you are all subjecting these small beings to the same treatment. They are not incompetent. They are fully competent in being who they are exactly in the moment.
They are not small adults. They are just beings… equal to you in every way and superior to you in many ways as well.
Could you imagine if every time a new washing machine came onto the market it was the same washing machine as 20 years ago? It does not work like that.
Physically you are evolving, spiritually you are evolving, mentally you are evolving.
These beings that come in, every new generation, every new being is an upgrade.
Every new being is something that the completeness of creation was missing… Huh, there’s another paradox for you.
And if you could interact with your children with this level of respect and admiration and knowing and willingness to learn and willingness to observe and be present then much of the conflict or questions around parenting would simply dissolve… because there would be no parenting. There would be co-exisitng with beings who had so much to teach you and who in turn would be willing to accept your service… which is also a form of service.
And they are just so darn cute.
We hope that you have had a nice time together today and have enjoyed it as much as we have and we look forward to repeating this form of communication with you in the future as it would be and we hope that you have a lovely rest of the day or night.
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